What is the definition of mature love?

                

          

                 There are no particular or specific words that could be used to define mature love as definitions are built up containing words plucked from once experience and here every next one has his own one like, "Every Jack is impatient for his Jill." Yet we can have some faint expressions and narrations to dig out some grave means to mean them for overcoming the shortcomings in the process of not only in getting and sharing of love but also in creating and developing of it so that we could reach our ultimate destination. Here we are going to get some variations in the meaning of love that would leave you helpless to help you in the solitude and to think over it in a different or unique way to get its precise in an expanded way to come out your bloody narrow lane.

Love is the thing that becomes someone’s need when he is not being sensed properly through his family members and others. Sensing properly means to accept the weakness and failures of loved ones to grow themselves their own strength in their own way or to create an environment free from personal bias and fears to provide them with the freedom to express their imaginations to make it more important than any other knowledge. But people frequently can be seen imposing their own things over someone whom they love and they call it their love. While the beginning of love is to let those we love___be perfectly themselves and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

To love and to be loved one must have it in himself in an enormous and abundant way to such a state that it turned in an overwhelming ecstasy and then there would be no need to learn about expressing of it. There are people who have it but find hurdles to show it. If you can't show it you can't get it. Search person's task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within themselves that they have built against it. Suffering from for love know___ 

"If you have it you don't need to have anything else and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have." 

To love and to be loved you need a good heart as a loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge and even heart is the main component of a functioning mind.

"Love is easier to act out than to define." Still one always have words to define it and who doesn’t have them ever wants to have. First, love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity. A curiosity to have the feeling of sharing someone’s feelings, emotions and touch. If it continues for a long time it deeps down to the bottom of heart to become a source to mature an immature man to face easily the unwanted moments and things of life or to turn a man to have position over someone's life. 

A man cannot learn love until one has loved an animal as it enables a part of one’s soul to awaken that makes him a deservable candidate to sense the unsaying words and needs of others and it brings his hurt close to another one to sow the seed of humanity. True love comes quietly without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells get your ears checked. Love is not one-way traffic but its two way give and take. There are lots of who find the inability to share their love. They ought to count that ___ a bell is no bell till you ring it, a song is no song till you sing it, and love in your heart wasn't put there to stay ____ Love isn’t love till you give it away and moreover, the highest love of all kinds find its fulfilment not in what it keeps but in what it gives.

Falling in love means to lost yourself to find your existence in your beloved aspects as “The sum of love ___ Two minuses one equals zero”. Immature love says; I love you because I need you while mature love says; I need you because I love you. It is hard to believe but true that there is hardly anyone in this world whom we can call mature. I met a person who was a renowned politician had to judge me whether I am a deservable one for a certain task or not. His words had a frequency of using a mature word that codifies me an immature man. Finding hard to swallow that bloody hell word for so many times I could not resist myself and asked him the definition of mature. As an articulate, he gathered all good and kind words of traits fed in his memory to win the unexpected challenge that was not less than a bolt from blue and it seemed that he had no ending of his sensing to create the perfect conclusion. Seeing his helpless situation I tried to relax him giving my own one that left him startled. “We can call a person mature who could sip his tea without picking out the fly drown in it”.

Recently study picturised lovers as revoltry clutching the agenda ___ “It was a lover and his lass, With a hey and a ho and a hey nonino”. Shakespeare's “ As you like it” reveals the nudity of fair intimacy ___

“Men are April when they woo, 

December when they wed. 

Maids are May when they are maids, 

but the sky changes when they are wives." 

A mature man always behaves as a timid in a matter of love as he knows the saying ___ 

“We say we love flowers yet we pluck them. We say we love trees yet we cut them down. And people still wonder why some are afraid when told they are loved." 

There is one sad truth in life I’ve found while journeying East and West ___ the only folks we really wound are those we love the best. We flatter those we scarcely know, we please the fleeting guest and deal full many a thoughtless blow, to those who love us best.

As we know that it’s a never ending matter yet I would like to pen down with following words…..

“To love is to suffer. To

avoid suffering one must

not love. But then one suffers

from not loving. Therefore;

to love is to suffer, not

to love is to suffer; to

suffer is to suffer; To be

happy then is to suffer,

but suffering makes one

unhappy. Therefore to be

happy, one must love or

love to suffer or suffer

from too much happiness”